Saturday, February 18, 2006

Simple rules to Human Communication

1) Do not try to use flowery language so that it will "sound nicer" (in most of the case, it doesn’t)

2) Do not be lazy and attempt to use short words to substitute seemingly long sentences. (The other party isn’t you. They don't really know what you intend to say, usually your substituted words are the cause to a misunderstanding)

3) Always explain your rationale to your point of view when applicable. Do not always assume the other party will probe you to explain further.

4) Always say what you mean from your heart and what you are thinking. (The other person can't possibly know what you are thinking when you are saying stuffs that is in extreme opposite of what you are thinking)


Please do share any rules which you think you have learnt and will be beneficial to everyone else.

1 Comments:

Blogger 杨某 said...

Ha ha ha. Y am I laughing. Because I am elated and surprised. This is so because I have never thought that u and I share the same thoughts. A girl interested in philosophy is something not common. Perhaps you may be interested to do some reading up on your own. Try Zhuang Tzu, it appeals to me greatly.

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